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october 13, 2001
Dear Mr. Li
Any advice or words of wisdom on how to handle yourself after a personnal loss? And how do deal with the friends around you during this time?
"PyScHoRuNNeR"
Jet's Response
From the day you start to own something, of course there comes a day when you will lose it. The difference is the amount of time that you think you own it. No one can dictate when someone will lose that which is precious to them. The only thing one can do is, when you have it, try to treasure it as much as you can.
With that in mind, there are two ways to handle it. The first is to live the rest of yur life in the shadow of loss. The second is to keep the memory of the loved on that you lost in your heard and continue to live your life with an open heart. I believe those that have gone ahead of us would want to see us live our lives to the fullest with an open heart and not with sorrow, sadness and regret.
